Romantic Expressions

We communicate our affection through romantic expressions.

The things we say...our body language...the gifts we bestow...all convey..either directly or indirectly...our sentiments and intentions.

This is a very complex process...the dynamics involve our subconscious and conscious...base nature and personality...how we were raised...previous relationships...and that's just the tip of the iceberg.

Now...I'm not trying to intimidate you or impress you with my vocabulary...but I do need you to understand...something as seemingly simple as picking out a gift is actually a very elaborate process.

Because of this...many so called experts will dowse you in scientific rhetoric... attempt to sell you tricks and illusions...or convince you they have access to secret pick up lines...guaranteed to make women fall into your arms on demand.

The real secret is...There Is No Secret...we are going to keep this honest and simple!

K.I.S.S.: Keep It Simple Silly

This is really important...so I'm going to harp a little more on the subject:

Do you know what this is?

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What if I were to tell you I could get up on my roof...walk off the edge and keep walking on air until I reached my neighbors roof?

No tricks involved!

You would tell me "that's impossible"...and rightly so!

Why...because of Gravity!

Good Answer!

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That mathematical gobbledygook I showed you is the force equation for two particles interacting through gravity.

Say what?

My point exactly...I want you to come away from this rather unorthodox lesson with two very important truths:

• You don't need to recognize and understand mathematical equations or complicated physics to appreciate and acknowledge the concept of gravity... likewise...you do not need to understand the complexities and dynamics of communication to become skilled in the language of love.

• Over-thinking...applying formulas...and attempting to be tricky won't change the basic nature of communication. Be thoughtful and honest...and as with gravity...let nature take its course.

So That's It...I'm On My Own?

Never fear my friend...this romantic ogre will provide all the help you need!

Romantic expressions need to be:

• Honest
• Sincere
• Thoughtful
• Respectful
• Direct

Before you can be honest and sincere with anyone else...you need to be honest and sincere with yourself...which requires introspection...and this process of self-discovery may uncover the need for you to make some changes. This can be a very difficult challenge for many people.

I'm going to share some great...painless techniques so you can:

• better understand yourself
• make personal improvements(if you deem necessary)
• confidently express your feelings openly, honestly and sincerely

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It's hard to be thoughtful or respectful if you focus only on yourself.

But... "I'm my favorite subject", you might say...therein lies a potential problem!

• Watch
• Listen
• Learn

Thoughtfulness and respect require you to pay close attention to other people. It may be cliche'...but...you really can't understand someone else until "you've walked a mile in their shoes".

If you learn to listen well...are attentive and non-judgmental...your romantic expressions will convey concern for their feelings, situation and personal space.

Why Did You Say Romantic Expressions Need To Be Direct?

Guy's...don't beat around the bush...and if you just giggled...go stand in a corner!

You need to avoid sending mixed messages.

Be direct...if you have something to say...say it!

There's nothing wrong with creating some mystique...and a little "hard to get" play can be challenging...but...

There's a fine line between providing a challenge and coming off as indifferent or unsure of yourself.

Women are intelligent...instinctive...and increasingly independent...and as you should well know...in great demand!

Show them the respect they deserve and your romantic expressions will be well received!

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